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<DIV><STRONG><FONT face=Garamond color=#0000ff>Jeff,</FONT></STRONG></DIV>
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<DIV><STRONG><FONT face=Garamond color=#0000ff>I guess I need to know if you are
saying this is the one and only exception? Or do you feel that standing up
is an okay thing? </FONT></STRONG></DIV>
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<DIV><STRONG><FONT face=Garamond color=#0000ff>Yolanda Cruz<BR>Office
Manager/Executive Assistant<BR>Business for Life<BR>Phone: (815)
391-9241<BR>Fax: (815) 227-5757<BR>E-mail: <A
href="mailto:yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz">yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz</A></FONT></STRONG></DIV>
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A
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href="mailto:Yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz">Yolanda</A> </DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Cc:</B> <A title=gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net
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<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Monday, May 03, 2004 7:19 PM</DIV>
<DIV style="FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> [GCFL-discuss] To Yolanda from
JEff</DIV>
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<DIV> Yolanda,</DIV>
<DIV> One thing I wanted to mention. I can understand what Posh was
saying ( After he clarified it ) but one time I think a woman needs to stand
up to her husband is if he is abusive. ( Not saying he is) ( I've
always been taught that & from what I have studied & read in the Bible
that is Biblically nothing wrong with standing up & stuff if he is
abusive to your children. Whelp just thought <STRONG>& I
believe that is an exception.</STRONG></DIV>
<DIV>Jeff</DIV>
<DIV>On Mon, 3 May 2004 09:43:48 -0700 (PDT) <A
href="mailto:gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net">gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net</A> writes:</DIV>
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<DIV>Yolanda,</DIV>
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<DIV>I know this one is for Siarlys, but I thought I should comment. </DIV>
<DIV>In September 2003, My one and only sister moved to boston, mass. She
also took with her my one and only nephew. Her husband was in the military
ans was just released. Before all this occurred we had BIG problems with his
family up north. When they found out my sister was pregnant, they suggested
abortion. (They are Catholics). They always complained about her beliefs
when it came to her child and what it would be raised. When my sister was
here, we were always here to comfort her and help her out. Her husband
informed her that when he was released, he wanted to move back where his
family is from. We were all shocked. But when he got his letter to show his
release, she went along with it. We were supportive but not happy. My sister
just said, " I go, where he goes." </DIV>
<DIV>Even though you may have good reasons for staying (like my sister), he
is your husband. you can state your problems to him and concerns, but what
he says goes. All you can do is pray to god for guidance, (proverbs 3: 4
&5).</DIV>
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<DIV>You need to work at what you pray for. You will thus prove that you
have faith and that you really mean what you say. Only then will God
answer your prayers.—Hebrews 11:6. </DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV>Posh<BR><BR><B><I>gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net</I></B> wrote:</DIV>
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<DIV>Siarlys,</DIV>
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<DIV><STRONG><FONT face=Garamond color=#0000ff>Let's put this into
context. I will give you my example and you tell me how you
feel. My husband wants to move to GA because he has a sister,
brother-in-law, and two brothers there. Plus, all of the people from
his little pueblito in Mexico have moved to this small GA town. I on
the other hand like GA, the mountains, the heat, etc. But, we have 5
children. GA does not offer the bilingual school that I have my
children in. My family is here, and I don't want to live with his
sister or near her for that matter because she is from Mexico where the
culture is different and the woman is treated differently. My
husband is a modernized Hispanc. I mean to say that he does not go
for all that "a woman should not work", "my wife should have my dinner
ready", etc. I believe that it would be in my best interest to not
move because of the possible problems that could arise between me and my
in-laws. We have all been down this avenue I believe. My
question to you is should I make this sacrifice for my husband which will
in turn sacrifice my happiness, and the type of education that I want for
my children?</FONT></STRONG></DIV>
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color=#0000ff></FONT></STRONG> </DIV>
<DIV><STRONG><FONT face=Garamond color=#0000ff>Yolanda Cruz<BR>Office
Manager/Executive Assistant<BR>Business for Life<BR>Phone: (815)
391-9241<BR>Fax: (815) 227-5757<BR>E-mail: <A
href="mailto:yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz">yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz</A></FONT></STRONG></DIV>_______________________________________________<BR>GCFL-discuss
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