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<DIV> Yolanda,</DIV>
<DIV> One thing I wanted to mention. I can understand what Posh was
saying ( After he clarified it ) but one time I think a woman needs to stand up
to her husband is if he is abusive. ( Not saying he is) ( I've
always been taught that & from what I have studied & read in the Bible
that is Biblically nothing wrong with standing up & stuff if he is
abusive to your children. Whelp just thought <STRONG>& I believe
that is an exception.</STRONG></DIV>
<DIV>Jeff</DIV>
<DIV>On Mon, 3 May 2004 09:43:48 -0700 (PDT) <A
href="mailto:gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net">gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net</A> writes:</DIV>
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<DIV>Yolanda,</DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV>I know this one is for Siarlys, but I thought I should comment. </DIV>
<DIV>In September 2003, My one and only sister moved to boston, mass. She also
took with her my one and only nephew. Her husband was in the military ans was
just released. Before all this occurred we had BIG problems with his family up
north. When they found out my sister was pregnant, they suggested abortion.
(They are Catholics). They always complained about her beliefs when it came to
her child and what it would be raised. When my sister was here, we were always
here to comfort her and help her out. Her husband informed her that when he
was released, he wanted to move back where his family is from. We were all
shocked. But when he got his letter to show his release, she went along with
it. We were supportive but not happy. My sister just said, " I go, where he
goes." </DIV>
<DIV>Even though you may have good reasons for staying (like my sister), he is
your husband. you can state your problems to him and concerns, but what he
says goes. All you can do is pray to god for guidance, (proverbs 3: 4
&5).</DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV>You need to work at what you pray for. You will thus prove that you have
faith and that you really mean what you say. Only then will God answer
your prayers.—Hebrews 11:6. </DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV>Posh<BR><BR><B><I>gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net</I></B> wrote:</DIV>
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<DIV>Siarlys,</DIV>
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<DIV><STRONG><FONT color=#0000ff face=Garamond>Let's put this into
context. I will give you my example and you tell me how you
feel. My husband wants to move to GA because he has a sister,
brother-in-law, and two brothers there. Plus, all of the people from
his little pueblito in Mexico have moved to this small GA town. I on
the other hand like GA, the mountains, the heat, etc. But, we have 5
children. GA does not offer the bilingual school that I have my
children in. My family is here, and I don't want to live with his
sister or near her for that matter because she is from Mexico where the
culture is different and the woman is treated differently. My husband
is a modernized Hispanc. I mean to say that he does not go for all
that "a woman should not work", "my wife should have my dinner ready",
etc. I believe that it would be in my best interest to not move
because of the possible problems that could arise between me and my
in-laws. We have all been down this avenue I believe. My
question to you is should I make this sacrifice for my husband which will in
turn sacrifice my happiness, and the type of education that I want for my
children?</FONT></STRONG></DIV>
<DIV><STRONG><FONT color=#0000ff face=Garamond></FONT></STRONG> </DIV>
<DIV><STRONG><FONT color=#0000ff face=Garamond>Yolanda Cruz<BR>Office
Manager/Executive Assistant<BR>Business for Life<BR>Phone: (815)
391-9241<BR>Fax: (815) 227-5757<BR>E-mail: <A
href="mailto:yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz">yolanda.c@businessforlife.biz</A></FONT></STRONG></DIV>_______________________________________________<BR>GCFL-discuss
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