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<DIV>My question comes down to, how far beyond natural means are we REQUIRED to
go to keep our borrowed bodies in good repair? If I remember correctly some
discussions I have had with another Orthodox Jew, death is, in the end, also a
merciful provision of G-d, because it would be an intolerable burden to live
forever. If someone is bleeding to death, it is pretty clear, we should apply a
compress and stop the bleeding, not take time asking, well, how do you feel
about the quality of your life, do you want the bleeding stopped? On the other
hand, if some clever man has invented a heart-lung machine, are we MANDATED to
keep someone on it, until they die IN SPITE OF this intensive technological
assistance with the most vital functions of the body? In between, if the leg G-d
gave me is gangrenous, must I cut it off and throw it away, in order to
save the rest? Most of us would, but if you've seen the opening of <EM>Dances
With Wolves</EM>, some officers would rather go back into combat and die than
have their leg removed. And sometimes it turns out that with truly competent
individualized care, their leg can be saved.</DIV>
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<DIV>Like Lance, my parents have made very clear they do not want extensive
treatment to keep their bodies alive once their mind is gone. They have put it
all in writing, so it will not be up to me to decide for them, or try to work
out what they would have wanted. That is a great relief to me. But my mother did
successfully complete a course of chemo and radiation therapy, which left her
fully able to live her life for many more years.</DIV>
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<DIV>Siarlys</DIV>
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<DIV>On Mon, 14 Aug 2006 12:44:53 -0700 "Discussion of the Good, Clean Funnies
List" <<A href="mailto:gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net">gcfl-discuss@gcfl.net</A>>
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<DIV>Wow thanks GreenBubble!<BR> </DIV>
<DIV>My cousin just ended the good fight against cancer. She had "kicked it"
and then headed back to work and it came back. So she called it quits at work.
From there on, though, the fight was down hill. Rare was the good news. But
she fought the good fight till the end. Thankfully died a peaceful death in
the hospital. </DIV>
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<DIV>My parents have always told us they do not want to be kept alive by
machine. If they cannot operate a "normal" life they do not want to be kept
alive via machine. As you can imagine this has given me an already pointed
opinion. Many have accused me of being cold, but my opinion is from my parents
desire not to be a vegetable in some bed. </DIV>
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<DIV>I'd rather we see making the person's final days pleasent and enjoyable
than keeping them under a needle futily.</DIV>
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<DIV>G-d bless you all!</DIV>
<DIV>Lance<BR> </DIV>
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<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2>Frank</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2>Allow me to present an
opinion from the the perspective of an Orthodox Jew. (I speak
only for myself, but I think that my opinions on the subject represent the
rulings of the great rabbis of this generation.) </FONT></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2>Despite what anyone else
says, our bodies do not belong to us. They are on loan from G-d for
however long He sees fit to entrust them to us. We are given the
responsibility to care for it and to keep it in good repair. We do not
have the right to throw up our hands and stop taking care of it.
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<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2></FONT></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2>Under Torah Law, we
are required to do anything and everything to keep a person alive --
regardless of the so-called quality of that life -- even for a few
minutes. This includes violating the Shabbos or Kosher laws.
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<DIV><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff face=Arial size=2>That said, when a course of
treatment involves considerable risk and/or great pain, a person has the
right to choose which path to take. With chemotherapy, in
particular, you cannot know, beforehand, whether the chemo will extend
life or cut it short. It </FONT></SPAN><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff
face=Arial size=2>is a race -- will the poison kill the cancer, or
the person, first. </FONT></SPAN><SPAN><FONT color=#0000ff
face=Arial size=2>The person has to decide, together with his family, and in
consultation with his rabbi, which way to go. </FONT></SPAN></DIV>
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<DIV>Things have been rather quiet lately. I have a few thoughts that
maybe would get a discussion going.</DIV>
<DIV>In the last little while we have had two neighbors die after long
illnesses and many and long hospital stays and doctors visits. I now
have a brother in law who is fighting a losing battle with prostate
cancer. In each case there was no chance of recovery to full health.
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<DIV>The question I have is this: Should we run up huge
hospital/doctor bills in and effort to stay alive when the illnesses are
terminal? What would be appropriate or not appropriate? Who
should make the decision--the person or the family or both? </DIV>
<DIV>I am struggling with this somewhat and would like to know your thoughts
and maybe get some new insight.</DIV>
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