[GCFL-discuss] Opinions and Advice

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Thou shalt honor thy mother and father.
:)
Yolanda Cruz
Office Manager/Executive Assistant
Business for Life
7210 East State Street
Rockford, IL  61108
Phone: (815) 391-9241
Fax: (815) 227-5757
E-mail:  yolanda.c at businessforlife.biz
----- Original Message ----- 
From: <gcfl-discuss at gcfl.net>
To: "Yolanda" <Yolanda.c at businessforlife.biz>
Cc: "Discussion of the Good, Clean Funnies List" <gcfl-discuss at gcfl.net>
Sent: Friday, May 07, 2004 5:30 AM
Subject: Re: [GCFL-discuss] Opinions and Advice


> Ah, good point, Nancy. Yes, I have been paying my own tuition and living
> expenses when I was away. I am of legal age. I know that they don't have
the
> right to force me to do anything I don't want to, but they feel so
strongly
> about me not moving into this place. I'm trapped, because I can't afford
> another place, but don't want to live with my parents.
> ~Quama
>
>
> >From: gcfl-discuss at gcfl.net
> >To: Quama <sea_jays at hotmail.com>
> >CC: "Discussion of the Good, Clean Funnies List" <gcfl-discuss at gcfl.net>
> >Subject: Re: [GCFL-discuss] Opinions and Advice
> >Date: Thu, 6 May 2004 17:42:07 -0700 (PDT)
> >
> >Quama,
> >are you a college student whose education is being paid for by your
> >parents?  Are you employed and not going to school?  How old are you?
The
> >answer we would probably give you would definately depend on how you
would
> >answer the above questions?
> >Nancy
> >
> >gcfl-discuss at gcfl.net wrote:
> >Age Quama? I don't know if there is an easy answer. But I'm in a simular
> >situation. Want my own life, but not being allowed to live it.
> >
> >I think moving out would be healthy for ya'll. But I don't have any solid
> >answers for you. Sorry,
> >God bless you,
> >Lance
> >John 8:32 "You will know the Truth and the Truth will set you free."
> >
> >On Thu, 06 May 2004 20:17:27 -0230 gcfl-discuss at gcfl.net writes:
> > > Ok. I have a question, and want people's opinions. The question is
> > > this:
> > > what do you do when what your parents want and what you want are
> > > different.
> > >
> > > The context of the question is rather complicated. For the Reader's
> > > Digest
> > > version, I have been living on my own for a number of years now, and
> > > my
> > > parents made me move back home. I was planning of moving out of my
> > > appartment, into another one with two friends. 1 week before I was
> > > to move,
> > > my parents decided that it wasn't good for me. They didn't like one
> > > of these
> > > two individuals, and simply said "No". I didn't want to disappoint
> > > my
> > > friends, so I'm still paying rent there (both these individuals have
> > > severe
> > > food intolerances, and trust the others to NOT contaminate the
> > > kitchen -
> > > something they don't feel everyone can. There's only a few people
> > > they feel
> > > they can trust.).
> > >
> > > My mother loves to lecture, and will do so on any opportunity
> > > available.
> > > Some examples are: "You didn't get that job! ... you're too meek.
> > > That's
> > > what they didn't like about you... you also waste your time .... you
> > >
> > > shouldn't have gone to church during exams." ... [after calling me
> > > on my
> > > cell]
> > > "Where are you? ... you should have called" - I remind her that she
> > > was to
> > > call me, and that I did, in fact call her anyway - "... Well, when
> > > you don't
> > > get an answer, you call back every two minutes until you get one."
> > > This is
> > > not practical for two reasons: one, I use up cell phone minutes
> > > needlessly,
> > > and two, my father works at home, and is on the phone for hours on
> > > end with
> > > business associates.
> > >
> > > Anyway, that's just rambling. Needless to say, I'm not happy at
> > > home; I feel
> > > trapped, because I'm outside the city limits where there is no
> > > public
> > > transportation and therefore cannot go anywhere or do anything
> > > social. I
> > > want to be living in the city, but it would absolutely kill my
> > > parents - esp
> > > my mom - to live with my friends, but I need to live my life.
> > >
> > > I've tried talking to them, and tried just following them, not
> > > really caring
> > > what it was that I wanted. Neither works well, so I was just
> > > wondering what
> > > you are thinking.
> > >
> > > ~Quama
> > >
> > > PS. Thanks.
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